Anonymous said: eres lesbiana?
Anonymous said: eres lesbiana?
— Stephen Chbosky (via joeythegiant)
I’m stuck between wanting:
1. A long lasting relationship with my soulmate who supports me and protects me and is my partner and we are completely bad ass together and in love
2. Wanting to have casual sex and rip out the heart of everyone person I meet
3. Being independent and having a loyal dog while I’m married to my career
It scares me how accurate this is.
People want to make a joke out of leaked nudes. I couldn’t give a fuck less that a woman decided to pose nude and send it to someone else. That does not make her a slut. It is not a shame that that’s what she wanted to do. The only shame in this situation is that there a fucking people who will leak them without consent. The issue is that people will lurk and dig deep to release photos without the person being aware.
I’ve known of one too many leaked photos of girls. I’m not only speaking about celebrities, even though those are the ones people talk about the most for obvious reasons but then they forget that they’re human too. Obviously they will be upset, hurt and of course there will also be those who react making a joke out of it because what can they possibly do? However they decide to react, they have all the right in the world, it’s their bare body shown to the world. It’s also more than that, it’s trust broken by the person you chose to send it to. It’s people disrespecting you and your privacy.
If you ask for nudes and you get them, keep those shits to yourself.
For a very long time I’ve worked around saying what’s on my mind. In the beginning I would hold back what I had to say but as time passed, I would sometimes say things without thinking of how the other person may feel. Finding the right balance was hard to achieve but it’s taking a lot of practice. I’ve always been considerate of other people’s emotions but then I wouldn’t consider my own. Sometimes things just need to be said.
Things need to be said and I don’t really make any apologies for how I feel. If it’s a matter where my two cents aren’t asked for, then I won’t shove it down your throat. But if you ask me, then I will answer honestly. If it does involve me and how I feel, it’s going to come out.
I still won’t just blurt things out but if it’s how I feel then I’m going to say it. I’ve seen way to many people come and go in my own life to be able to wonder a bunch of “what if’s”. I’ve seen too many people love someone and never say it. People confide in me how they don’t want to tell something to a person, meanwhile the other person feels the same exact way.
What I’m trying to get at is, I don’t want to live a life full of regret or what if’s. I don’t want to live wondering how things would have turned out. I don’t make promises of a happy future but if this is how I feel at this moment and it matters, I’m going to say it. I make no apologies for it anymore.
Mind you, I’m not one to tell you I love you and how much you mean to me on a daily basis or even smother you with it. There’s only so much words can mean if actions still lack, you still have to prove it. But people still need to hear things. People need to be told they matter and how important they are in your life. You can show it but you also need to reassure them in every possible way.
I will always rather know that I tried than to have been afraid and believe me, I do know some things are better left unsaid but even the lack of words says something. Be sure that your silence isn’t misinterpreted.
Say, this is me and this is how I feel or don’t feel. I still love you and you are important to me or I just don’t see you that way or it’s not there anymore. Take me as I am and for how I feel.
All I’m saying is, bring me flowers when I am here, don’t wait until I’m gone.
Use your words, they’re powerful.